I’ve always
been a strong proponent of the thought that writing can be very therapeutic.
Today, Sunday, is a good example.
The wind is
howling outside and it’s pouring rain. The dogs delight in going outside to do
their business and waiting until they’re back in the house to shake off the
rain.
The new (two
months old) refrigerator is having motor problems. It sounds like the garbage
disposal. It stops when you open the refrigerator door. Leave it open for a few
minutes, and when you close it the noise stops. If you close the door too soon,
the noise continues. Get yourself some ice cubes, and it starts screaming
again. It’s Sunday. Who wants to call for repairs on a Sunday?
Thanks to the
weather, Poop Duty has been put on hold. It’s an ugly job, but someone has to clean up the mess – daily.
There are three dogs – two yellow Labs and a Chiwienie. For those who don’t
know, a Chiwienie is half Chihuahua and half Dachshund.
After leaving
the refrigerator door open for exactly four minutes and then closing it, the
screaming has stopped. Step away from the
ice cubes.
Can’t go
outside for Poop Duty, so what’s left? The laundry is done and so is the
vacuuming. I hear a book calling my name.
Sometimes we
write a book that doesn’t hold our attention, much less the readers’. It seemed
like a good idea at the time. I started one a long time ago about a nursing
home. It hit too close to a real life situation and I couldn’t deal with the
story. Not done, but gone.
Other times
we work on a book that we enjoy, that grabs us as the writer and won’t let go. At
those times nothing seems as important as the new Work in Progress (WIP). We
lose ourselves in the story. The ideas are coming faster than we can type them.
We don’t even want to break to eat, but we have to.
We get so
wrapped up in the story that all of our problems seem to take a backseat, if
only for a little while. I love that!
None of my jobs over the years ever had the effect on me. If I’d only known, I
would have started writing the day I left kindergarten. Really.
I’ve talked
to other authors about this feeling, but unfortunately, when we get around to
the subject of marketing and promoting, it feels like someone popped our Happy
Balloon. One of the reasons is that no one seems to be able to come up with a
new and unique promotional idea. You might write the Great American Novel, but
it may not go anywhere because no one knows about it. (I’m not speaking of
myself, by the way. Great American Novel? Ha! But fun, yes.) We’ve got to run
ourselves ragged trying to get the Word out there.
I bought
three new toys for the dogs yesterday. They’re exactly alike, and yet each dog
wants the same toy – just like little kids. Let them figure it out themselves.
I have a book to write.
There are
some books that wrap us in their arms and beg to be written. Those are the ones
that are therapeutic. For a little while, it’s all about us and our book.
Nothing else matters. We can forget grinding motors, wet dogs and the celery
that went limp before we could use it in the tuna salad.
Right now I’m
writing a time travel mystery. The therapy I get from working on this WIP is
worth far more than I could ever get from a paid therapist. Sorry, Doctor, but
it’s the truth. The only thing better than writing therapy is chocolate. Hmm.
Chocolate vs. Writing. That’s too close to call.
Ah. It’s time
to get back to writing, and I think I’ll have some chocolate while I write.
Perfect solution.
Has your writing ever helped you get through
a rough day or some hard times? I sure hope so.
Here’s to
happy writing days (holding chocolate in the air).
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Writing has gotten me through a lot of tough times. Life seems to constantly present "challenges" but, when I write, they all magically disappear. I'm in the story, living the plot along with my characters.
ReplyDeleteThe next best thing is floating in a pool with the sun shining down on me. My problems seem to drift away.
For me, water is therapeutic and so is writing!
It's amazing, Pat, that writing (and sun and water) can have such a beneficial side, and we probably didn't realize came with the territory when we started out. Thank you for commenting!
DeleteWriting allows me to take the characteristics of people who annoy me and make them the victim.
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Good thought, Fiona. I once heard an author say that as long as there were people she didn't like, she'd never run out of victims or stories. Thank you so much for commenting!
DeleteI so agree with Fiona and the author you mention, Marja. Right now I live in a lovely place with wonderful residents except for a few I wouldn't mind killing in a book. I mentioned this to a friend Saturday and she was horrified that I would even think of killing anyone even in a book. Obviously, she doesn't read mysteries.
ReplyDeleteYou reminded me of a story, Pat. I once said, "Oh, I could just shoot her" about someone I worked with. I was talking to the janitor and he took me seriously. I had to explain what a figure of speech was. Maybe you should get your neighbor started on mysteries. Thank you for commenting!
DeleteYou are absolutely right, Marja. Last summer I lost my beloved only brother. I was plotting a book and started working on it immediately. And when I finished it, I turned immediately to another one. While I'm writing, I don't have to think about how much I miss him. When I stop, it's a different story. And this is only one instance of how my writing (and also reading) has helped me through a terrible time.
ReplyDeleteI understand completely, Dorothy. I reacted just the opposite when I lost my husband. I couldn't read or write for almost a year. I'm sorry for your loss, but glad you had something to keep you going. Thank you so much for commenting!
DeleteSometimes when I want to complain about someone or something, and I know I can't, I'll just write it out in a spiral notebook I keep, and it makes me feel a lot better. Someday, I may turn that notebook into a novel.
ReplyDeleteGood idea, Evelyn, and I should try that. Your notes might make a killer novel. : ) Thank you for commenting!
DeleteGood article, Marja. I agree that writing is therapeutic. Writing saved me from deep depression when my daughter and other family members passed on, and I was able to incorporate some of those feelings into my novels.
DeleteI'm glad you could incorporate those feelings, Jean. It's not the easiest thing to do, but it helps. Thank you so much for commenting!
ReplyDeleteSo agree. I don't know what I'd do without writing. Lost at sea, I guess. Thanks for another excellent heart-felt post.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what I'd do without it, either, Madelaine. I'm glad you could relate to the subject. Thank you for commenting!
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