I sat down to
write this week’s post and drew a blank. I don’t know where that phrase came
from and, frankly, I’m not in the mood to research it. Anyway, my mind was like
a chalkboard that someone had erased, or a document someone had deleted. It
happens to the best of us, and it’s not an age thing. I’ve seen plenty of young
people go blank at the worst possible moment.
As the
blankness wore off (ha ha), I remembered that last week’s post was about
including a little reality in our stories. Drawing a blank is reality. What if
your protagonist were to approach the most important information in her
investigation, and suddenly she/he can’t remember what they meant to check
into? It could happen, and it could add to the story. Just a thought.
Often, when
you least expect it, that elusive idea or thought comes to you. I was once
trying to think of the name of an actress’s son so I could tell an anecdote
about him to some friends. It just wouldn’t come to me and, of course, I
couldn’t think of her name either.
This was in the days when there wasn’t a computer in every home and I couldn’t
look it up. About two days later I was driving home from work on a Los Angeles
freeway in stop and go traffic when it hit me. I suddenly knew both his name
and his mother’s. Guess what? Today I can’t recall either of their names again,
even though I can picture them in my mind. I want to say her name was Sylvia,
but that isn’t it.
Sometimes our
mind is going in one direction while our mouth is going in another. Have you
ever looked at your dog and called it by your child’s name? (It’s not just me.
I’ve heard other people do it.) Heaven help you if you call to your child by
using the dog’s name.
Here’s
another one. Have you ever answered the phone and recognized the voice of a
longtime friend but you couldn’t think of their name? That’s when you say, “Who
is this?” as they start talking. After they fill in the name, you say, “Oh. It
didn’t sound like you,” in order to get yourself off the hook.
I think
sometimes we have too many thoughts going through our little pea brains and
it’s hard to pull ourselves back to what’s currently going on. Again, this
isn’t an age thing. It’s a “we all have days like that” thing. Our characters
should certainly have days like that once in a while.
I’m chuckling
because when I sat down to write this post, I sure didn’t have these things in
mind. Maybe drawing a blank was actually in inspiration. Ya think? Probably
not.
What did I
say about things coming to you when you least expect it? The actress I referred
to above was Stella Stevens, and her son was actor Andrew Stevens.
I’ll bet the
next time my protagonist forgets something it will come to her as she’s washing
the dishes or putting on her shoes – or maybe in the middle of a different
investigation.
So, once
again, I appreciate it when an author puts a little relatable reality in a
story. Something I can laugh at and say, “Oh, yeah. I’ve done that.” Even if
it’s a fictional character you’re relating to, it’s nice to know you’re not
alone.
What are some
of the things you’ve done that you might use in a story? Can’t remember? Oh,
well…
Until next
week, write the names of your children on one hand and the names of your dogs
on the other. When you call to them, just be sure to check the correct hand.
Enough of this silliness. Come back next week. You never know what you’ll find
here.
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"You never know what you'll find here." That's one of the reasons I enjoy reading your blog, Marja. Some posts are thought-provoking, some informative and some, as you phrased it, "silliness." But I enjoy each and every one!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Pat! That makes it worth it to keep going with the posts. Thank you for stopping in!
DeleteGood tip about protaganit drawing a blank - may I use it?
ReplyDeleteThank you, Janice! You can use anything I blog about. I'm glad it inspired an idea to use it. Thank you for stopping in!
DeleteI've been stuck for an interesting character trait for someone in my WIP, but you just gave me a great one. Do you remember Marion Lorne? She was a wonderful character. Oh the possibilities... Thanks. This isn't the first time I've got an idea while reading your blog.
ReplyDeleteGlad I could help, Evelyn. :) I had a character in one of my books who was convinced that a house was haunted. That gave me an opening to have her do or say all kinds of things. Marion Lorne? Yes. Thank you so much for stopping in!
DeleteI enjoyed your post today, Marja, and it actually reminded me I have a post to write for tomorrow! Sometimes when I get an idea that I can use for a future blog post, I go into my blog admin and write down a title that describes the idea so I can go back to it later. Just a thought for those days when I'm drawing a blank. :) I have to say that I call my son "Orly" and my dog "Joshua" all the time. Neither seems to mind. They know my mind isn't always where it should be!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Amy. I made a list of blog subjects, but I have no idea where I put it. I thought it was on the computer, but... I have to assume your son has a sense of humor. Good for him. :) Thank you for stopping in today!
DeleteMarja,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed this post. I'm so glad I'm not the only person who "loses" names from time to time. So glad I usually find them eventually.
Thank you, Marilyn. I keep having to ask new people to remind me of their names. I've gotten over being uncomfortable about it. : ) Thank you so much for stopping in!
Delete"Didn't sound like your voice, must be the connection!" Ha! I take Ginko Biloba--hasn't worked well--but think I'll use in a story sometimes...as always, very enjoyable post.
ReplyDeleteThank you Madeline. I haven't taken anything since I had the same problem when I was young(er). LOL People seem to remember me. Maybe it's because I keep asking them for their names. Thank you so much for stopping in!
DeleteDrawing a Blank should be part of my name. It happens to me all the time. Usually I think of what I was trying to remember after I didn't need it anymore. Fun post, Marja.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Pat. It happens to all of us, young or old. It's part of life, and sometimes it's good for a laugh. Thank you so much for stopping in!
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